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Peace Out

August 15, 2009

“Maintain a spirit of peace and you will save a thousand souls.”
– St. Seraphim

We just finished a week’s vacation in Maine with the family “from the north” – my dad, brother, wife, and two little ones. My brother Sean manages a summer camp “up they’ah” and he took us all on a little pleasure cruise last night. We slipped over the glassy surface of Washington Pond, just as the sun was tipping his hat to the day on the western rim of the world, in a pontoon boat. It was recently “kitted out” with new carpet and new cooshy seats, each equipped with a snazzy drink holder. In essence, it’s like taking your living room out for a drive (or float I should say).

Our little guy is just 11 months old now (we can’t believe it), and Sean and Amy’s little ones are each under 5. Needless to say, the down time for us adults is few and far between. It comes in dribs and drabs, like scattered coins that we’re quick to pick up. Last night’s cruise, brief as it was, came like a shower of gold.

The kids were strapped, secured, and seated, and under the watchful eyes of five adults. So for a few moments, slipping out across the cool water, we each in our turns could let the mind wander….

Water lapping up on the hull.
Wind over the face.
Dark pines on the edge of the water.
Sunshine peeking through the trees. Sunshine pouring honey on the
lake’s skyward gaze.
A loon in the distance.

The face of my father looking out and up as he held the throttle that muttered bubbly commands to the engine below. And on the deck, quiet submission. For just seconds at a time, a quiet surrender to the peace of the moment.

Then words. Then a laugh or a thought. Then stillness again, and a loving glance at Reality. I heard Rebecca say to our little niece, “Nature is God’s book for us to read.”
The dance of light on the surface. The cool evening breeze. The clear sky turning deep blue and orange at its edges.
Isn’t this what all our work is for? Aren’t these quiet movements of the body and soul through the world the moments we treasure? This stillness. This pause. This breathing pace. Not long. Not belabored. They come fast through the dark fields of our space like the Perseids and then they are gone. But the memory stays. The flash, the awe, the wonder of the thing leaves its indelible mark on the soul. And if we’re still, open, listening, these fleeting seconds, I believe, can change us. Strengthen us.

In the flurry of our work in the “real world” these moments of peace can keep us afloat.

Sea and Believe

June 15, 2009

I love the ocean. It helps me believe in things much larger than me. Transcendent things, eternal things; Beauty, Peace, The Oneness. Ultimately… God.

Standing before the sea this morning, here in cloudy/sunny Sea Isle City, I had a physical encounter with a spiritual truth. The sea became a channel of grace. And that’s the definition of a sacrament, in a very broad sense. I wasn’t alone either. Other daily communicants were gathering for this celebration of the sun, rising in benediction over the new day. Does this sound scandalous? Let’s recall that the world was God’s first church, or Temple, as the Hebrews saw it. In the beginning, we were all priestly in our vocation of praise and worship to the One Who fashioned it all from nothing.

We’ve spent two nights here and are leaving soon. So I had my farewell coffee sitting in the sand, while Rebecca and the wee lad slept. I snapped this picture with the phone, then just stared and listened for a while as the slow, rhythmic beat of the heart of the sea came into me.

Ponderings…

Who was the first ancient soul to build a craft and seek to cross this watery road to the world’s edge? That took some guts.

What is it about the lapping up of water on sand, endlessly, that stirs me, invites me, into endless peace?

I truly believe we’re drawn to the sea because God is still speaking through it; His first sacramental encounter with us. He sings through it’s salty symphony, He shines in the sun!

What Amazes You?

August 20, 2008

So we closed off our vacation in NY last week with Holy Mass and the traditional Byrons Family Blowout Breakfast at Benny’s Mexican-American Diner (you can have salsa with pancakes).

I love Byrons Family Blowout Breakfasts (hereafter named BFBBs). Basically, they involve the peaceful takeover of small eateries by the Byrons boys, girls, babies, big and tall uncles and wonderfully affirmative aunts…. and Grandma and Grandpa B. You need (and we often exceed) at least a dozen souls for an official BFBB. Tables are pieced together like Tetris blocks, wait staff quail, menus get flipped and decorated with classy drawings, and the cooks run out of eggs real quick.

This Sunday, Taylor Man (my 13 year old nephew with a rapier wit) was perusing the comics section in between his pancakes and Pepsi when I noticed the “Zits” column. I took it home with me and here it is above, thanks to the power of our HP scanner. If you click on the image it will become muy grande (which is Benny’s for really big).

(The other image in this post is Trogdor, The Burninator, who needs no introduction, expertly drawn and labeled on the back of a placemat by SB and TG, respectively).

If you’re a consistent reader of this blog, you can see why the above comic caught my attention. A teenager is dragged across the globe and shown some of the great wonders of the world, and he simply sighs, moans, groans, or slumps through it all. It takes a trip to the cell phone boutique kiosk thing at the local mall to rekindle his sense of wonder.

As they say at Benny’s…. “aye ya yai!” *

Now I get tantalized by technology and geeked out by gigabytes myself, as you may well know. And my daily walk can be a slippery slope into “technolatry” if I’m not careful. These days, it’s become hard to imagine life without Mr. Google, or cell phones, or the 150 billion e-mails we “MUST READ AND NOT DELETE!” that zip out every day across the planet (and that is an accurate number)… but the question remains, what truly amazes us? Takes our breath away? Reminds us of our place in the Great Chain of Being? What wows you? And let’s keep our examples unplugged.

Here are a few of mine:

– the iridescent shine on the backs of Japanese Beetles
– feeling the rush of wind and not knowing exactly how it forms and how it found me
– getting caught in heavy rain when hiking up north through balsam firs and pine trees. Rain splattering, dripping, dropping all around us, and the scent of the wet woods was intoxicating
– incense hanging in a church and how it can conjure up so many things and so many feelings. It’s a SMELL!
– a baby’s fingernails
– reciprocated love

“Faced with the sacredness of life and of the human person, and before the marvels of the universe, wonder is the only appropriate attitude.”
– Pope John Paul II

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* I’m not sure if they ever really say that at Benny’s.

Happy Friday…. It’s Friday, right?

August 24, 2007

Happy Friday to all! I mention this because soon, I will have a keen interest again in the phenomenon known affectionately as “Friday.”

You see friends, school starts up again in less than two weeks. Yippee! But I need to get over the amnesia that strikes teachers every summer. That’s right! Throughout the summer, we teachers are on a perpetual Friday feeling! We lay around in lawn chairs and eat chips, drink mojitos, and absent ourselves from the stress of paying bills, grooming, and other basic forms of hygiene! Now I need to wake up and remember those other four days of the week again: Mumday (sp?), Toosday, Miercoles, and Thursaturthsday or something!

Honestly, it’s been a good summer. A self-inflicted summer of work, with talks, writing, and podcasting for the first time, but I set my own pace and really enjoyed it. I love my Catholic Faith! God! Life! LOTS OF STUFF! So the work is my passion and my passion is this work! What’d ya gonna do?

The only thing is… we really didn’t “get away” much this summer. Canada was a terrific trip in June, but after the conference, there was just 2.5 days to explore the Rockies. Hey, I’m not complaining! (Well, clearly I was there) but I know that was a grace and a gift. It would be nice though to lavishly squander a week or two somewhere. We haven’t even been to the infamous Jersey shore yet this season! At least this weekend will be a little shore time with Rebecca’s family. I’ll have to soak it up! But that’s enough of that. I’M GOING ON LIKE RAMBLESTILSKIN OVE’ HERE!

AND NOW A WORD FROM TODAY’S GOSPEL

Today’s Gospel for the Feast of St. Bartholomew is from John 1:45-51. Philip finds Nathanael (aka St. Bartholomew) and tells him, “We have found the one about whom Moses wrote in the law, and also the prophets, Jesus son of Joseph, from Nazareth.”

And Bartholomew throws back this rather sarcastic reply “Can anything good come from Nazareth?” Hmmm…. don’t judge a book by its cover, Bart! How often does God choose the little ones, the poor, the wounded, the backwater towns to confound the big cities? Lots of times… in fact, every time! God always seems to come to us through the hidden way, the common path, the obscure whisper of our conscience as we pass the family van stranded on the roadside looking lost, the pungent odor of the homeless, the mentally ill woman on the bus, the work stacked in the back room awaiting our responsible hands to organize it. God is so often in the details, not the devil. The devil’s flashing cash in the big city lights and in the glamor of the popular and the posh.

“Can anything good come from Nazareth?”

Philip said to him, “Come and see.”

And here’s the saving grace for Bart. He went and saw and found out for himself that “Yes…. Everything good comes from Nazareth.

Come and see for yourself today! Look for Him in the little obscurities, the mundane and the ordinary. I think we’ll find Him, if we simply look.

Goofin’ Off with the Family

June 28, 2007

Just goofing off today with the family, down from New York. The kids LOVE the new Mac’s “Photo Booth” program. I kinda dig it myself, can you tell? It has a bunch of wacky features that distort your face and take a snapshot, right from the monitor. (I have yet to blog about my conversion to the Mac from a PC. Yes, it was mainly those hilarious commercials that won me over. It was a little funky in the beginning with no right click or thumbnail views but I’ve since discovered the shortcuts. The Mac is…. awesome! Just for podcasting alone! I’ve tossed a few up at this link. Please let me know what you think. For now, I’ve simply read a few blogs from last year, but I think God has big plans! I’m excited. You can search for “The Heart of Things” or Bill Donaghy through iTunes and subscribe to them, or just go to the link here and subscribe. They’ll slip right into your iPod or computer media player justa lika ‘dat. More on this later!)

So the gang is getting ready for today’s adventures now, after a nice sleep in and a big honkin’ breakfast. Yesterday was a blast at Hershey Park, despite the torrents of rain and lightning that occasionally blew in. The new Boardwalk water park they have is INCREDIBLE! and a perfect thing to do when it’s 124 degrees outside. OK, one more pic before we sign off….

Our Trip to the Canadian Rockies

June 22, 2007

Well, thanks to .Mac we have our trip pictures loaded (at least 96 out of 490 pics!). You can check out the website by clicking here. We saw so much in such a short span of time! Enjoy!

Let the earth bless the Lord, praise and exalt him above all forever. Mountains and hills, bless the Lord; praise and exalt him above all forever. Everything growing from the earth, bless the Lord; praise and exalt him above all forever. You springs, bless the Lord; praise and exalt him above all forever. Seas and rivers, bless the Lord; praise and exalt him above all forever. You dolphins and all water creatures, bless the Lord; praise and exalt him above all forever. All you birds of the air, bless the Lord; praise and exalt him above all forever. All you beasts, wild and tame, bless the Lord; praise and exalt him above all forever. You sons of men, bless the Lord; praise and exalt him above all forever.

– Daniel 3:74-82

Roadblock!

June 22, 2007

On our way through Jasper, surrounded by ridiculous amounts of natural beauty, these three Bighorn Sheep suddenly bounced down into the road from the craggy cliffs above. I wish we had this kind of “gaper delay” in Philly!

Just a Teaser!

June 21, 2007


Here’s a glimpse of the Canadian Rockies from the top of Mt. Whistler!
Hope to have a web album posted by the weekend.

The Road goes ever on and on
Down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
And I must follow, if I can,
Pursuing it with weary feet,
Until it joins some larger way,
Where many paths and errands meet.
And whither then? I cannot say.

– Bilbo Baggins, Lord of the Rings

Oh Canada!

June 19, 2007

Just waiting in the Edmonton International Airport now, ready to head south and home again!

We’ve had an amazing time up here in the Great White North. Friday and Saturday we spent in Edmonton, Alberta, at the National Symposium for COLF, the Catholic Organization for Life and Family here in Canada. (Check out the work of COLF for the New Evangelization here: www.colf.ca). There was a good turnout; wonderful people, young and old, men and women, from across the provinces, and even some from the States. Teens and teachers, married and religious, bishops and priests, and the curious as well. Enthusiasm for the Theology of the Body is strong here, and those who heard the late Pope John Paul II’s reflections on marriage, sexuality, and the meaning of life were genuinely inspired! We got a good dose of “northern hospitality” and the talk I gave on Friday seemed to be well received!

On Saturday we made our way west to the Canadian Rockies. Jasper National Park was a treasure for the eyes and we found ourselves totally awestruck by the grandeur of the mountains and the brilliant lakes and rivers. Incredible! Can’t wait to get back and post some pics!

SNAPSHOTS

+ staying at a little log chalet on the banks of the Athabasca River, in the heart of the mountains

+ the wild beast devouring or being devoured and screeching that woke Rebecca up at 2am, as I slept soundly… doh!

+ the sound and fury of the mountain waters rushing over cold stones

+ the color of the lakes and streams here is insane! Rebecca said it was “lac beauvert” (beautiful green).

+ watching black bears (from a distance!) dart across route 93

+ climbing the winding road on the way to Maligne Lake, as Bighorn Sheep grazed along the rocky slopes of the roadside, about 4 feet from our car

+ eating real buffalo… man, that was tasty

+ taking a tram (little red car suspended ridiculously high on thin wires over jagged rocks) up to the top of Mt. Whistler, high above the treeline

+ finding that little church on Sunday and singing the same songs I grew up with 3000 miles away

+ the Icefields Highway that slid through the biggest mountains we’ve ever seen for hours and hours…. and hours!

So ends a great journey and a wonderful experience of the North! Oh Canada, we’ll be back I’m sure!

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The Best Worst Coffee in Avalon

February 16, 2007

Providence and the wonderful generosity of a friend have conspired! Rebecca and I find ourselves in a wonderful shorehouse in Avalon, NJ for a nice long weekend.

So what if it’s 19 degrees and a ghost town down here. It’s kinda neat to see the seagulls sitting on the ice of the bay saying “What the?”

Rebecca says they could make a movie about the Rapture down here. It would be just us, cruising down Dune Drive past the salt water taffy shops and Irish flags hanging stiffly from vacant porches. The world around us sucked up into eternity! Abandoned beach balls roll down the boardwalk, brushing past our frigid feet. Us and Mr. Brady, that is.

Yes, he was the only other human I encountered this morning in my desperate search for coffee (except for the roofers working on these Avalonian mansions, but they’re more like SUPERhumans – who else could smack nails into shingles in wind chills like this?)

Mr. Brady has a little shop on Dune Drive. His was the only one open this morning. “Brady’s: Home of the Humongous Hoagie” – the sign caught my eye. I walked in and there he was, back to the door, fiddling with some plastic bags. “Coffee?” I mumbled prayerfully. “Not yet… Only takes two minutes.”

So that was nice of him. I waited for about 10 minutes, and it was nasty coffee. But who cares. I met another PERSON, who makes humongous hoagies, and likes jazz, even though the CD kept skipping in the store. It was the best worst coffee I’ve ever had.

Well, after that encounter we discovered other humanoid creatures. After an expensive breakfast\lunch at Uncle Bill’s Pancake House, we headed to town. To our great joy we learned from somebody at the deli that tomorrow, Saturday, Feb. 17, at 12pm in Sea Isle City, the most AMAZINGLY RIDICULOUS event is going to occur….

Hundreds of people are going to jump into the freezing waters of the Atlantic ocean, on purpose!

Stay tuned!